Wednesday, April 16, 2025

Happy 7th…

For years, visiting Prani, the Pet Sanctuary, had been on my wish list – a dreamy escape I yearned for but never quite managed to act on. Every time I thought of making the journey, some excuse or another would crop up. The foremost deterrent, as anyone in Bangalore might sympathize with, was the sheer distance. Located on Kanakapura Road, Prani is a good 50 kilometers from our home – a journey that demands both time and determination. But this time, the stars aligned. Sakura’s birthday fell on a weekday, and with a planned day off from work, the perfect opportunity arose. Little did I know just how remarkable this trip would turn out to be. Some adventures don't just meet your expectations – they exceed them, leaving you marveling at life’s unpredictability.

Right from the start, the day had its own unique rhythm. For the first time, I found myself using my phone to capture memories on video far more than taking pictures – uncharacteristic for me, as I’m not a typical “video person”. Yet, something about this trip compelled me to document it, preserving its magic in motion.

The Journey Begins

Booking tickets for Prani is a straightforward online process, though payments are to be made in person at the counter. We’d booked the earliest slot (9 AM) hoping for a head start to the day. However, in a delightful nod to our ever-impeccable planning, we arrived closer to 9:30. To our relief, the person at the counter didn’t seem too concerned about our late arrival; after all, it wasn’t a bustling day. In fact, the sanctuary was unusually quiet, and for a glorious hour, it felt as though we had the entire place to ourselves.

As we embarked on our journey through the sanctuary, our guide, Uday, became an invaluable companion. Over the next 1.5–2 hours, he led us through six distinct sections, each offering its own wonders and stories. The sanctuary is thoughtfully designed, and even as we reveled in its charm, Uday shared that new sections, including another aviary, were under development – yet another reason to return someday.

Map of Prani

1. Rodents: Breaking Fears, Building Connections

We began in the Rodents section, where we met an array of small, scurrying creatures: rats, mice, hamsters, and hedgehogs. At first, we hesitated (let’s say “I”), reluctant to interact with them. But Uday, with a calm and understanding approach, reminded us not to project our fears onto the children. Encouraged by his words, we put on a brave face and slowly found ourselves enjoying the company of these tiny beings.

Uday shared the sanctuary’s philosophy: every animal, bird, or insect here has been rescued, adopted, or responsibly sourced. Significant time and effort go into domesticating them, ensuring they are kept clean, well-fed, and able to thrive in an environment that mirrors their natural habitats.

Uday holding a mice

2. Iguanas & Large Animals: Grace in Strength

The next section introduced us to iguanas – majestic creatures with personalities as colorful as their scales. We learned to distinguish between males and females by their hues, with males exhibiting vibrant orange tones while females displayed bluish-gray shades. Holding an iguana, feeling its weight and its slow, deliberate movements, was a surreal experience. Watching them stick out their tongues added a playful touch to our interaction.

Nearby, we met a horse and two ponies, each with their own quirks and stories. Gabbar, one of the ponies, stood out with his moody demeanor. We fed them hay, marveling at their sheer strength. Horses can weigh up to 600 kilograms, while ponies are lighter at 150–250 kilograms. Uday taught us the proper way to stroke them – long, sweeping motions along their backs – a simple yet profound way to connect with these gentle giants.

Iguana moving on a tree bark

3. Goats, Turtles & Marvelous Archer Fishes

This section was lively, with goats eager to escape their enclosure at the slightest chance. They showcased a variety of horn shapes and colors, each one unique. Feeding them was a joyous experience, their eagerness making us laugh.

We also met turtles and terrapins, basking lazily in the sun. Uday clarified the differences between them. Tortoises are exclusively land-dwellers, turtles are aquatic, and terrapins are semi-aquatic, living both on land and in freshwater. While turtles enjoy longevity with lifespans of up to 150 years, the terrapins, with their average lifespan of 40 years, seemed content in their sunny retreat.

A true highlight was witnessing the Archer fishes in action. With their extraordinary ability to shoot jets of water to knock down their prey, these fish left us awestruck. Watching them target insects with such precision (even managing a few splashes on us) was a vivid reminder of nature’s endless ingenuity.

Well-behaved goats

4. Rabbits & Aquatic Wonders

The rabbits were a bundle of cuteness and anxiety, their tiny bodies trembling with nervous energy. Uday explained their rapid heart rates, which soar even higher under stress. Gently rubbing their backs, we tried to soothe them, though it was hard to tell if our efforts succeeded.

The aquarium offered a vibrant display of aquatic life, from small, colorful fish to larger species and even axolotls. We observed insect lifecycles and learned about how some insects are farmed to feed other animals. Outside the aquarium, we met a white cockatoo and a python, both captivating in their own ways. The python’s curling movements were mesmerizing, while a nearby parrot, recovering from the trauma of being abandoned, added a poignant touch to the experience.

Nervous rabbit

5. Donkeys, Sheep & Emus: Nature’s Personalities

The donkeys, often misunderstood, revealed their intelligence and loyalty. One of the females, a mother, stood out for her nurturing demeanor. Feeding them hay was a delight, their eagerness to connect added warmth to the encounter.

The sheep, like the goats, displayed a range of personalities. One particularly shy sheep hung back while the others eagerly ate from our hands. Meanwhile, the emus surprised us with their unique parenting dynamics: fathers take on the responsibility of guarding eggs and raising chicks, a fascinating role reversal in the animal kingdom.

Sakura with a sheep

6. Aviary: A Symphony of Wings

The aviary section buzzed with life, housing around 150 cockatoos and quails. As Uday handed out seeds, the cockatoos swooped down, some landing on our shoulders, others on our palms. Their cleverness was evident as they discarded seed husks, consuming only the kernels. One cheeky cockatoo even took an interest in my earrings, tickling my neck and leaving me in fits of laughter.

2 cockatoos on 2 shoulders

Reflections on a Magical Day

As the tour concluded, we found ourselves reluctant to leave. Washing our hands and heading back to the car, we carried with us not just memories, but a deep sense of connection to the natural world. Prani, with its unique charm and the gentle wisdom of guides like Uday, had given us an experience that is truly unforgettable. We’re already counting the days until our next visit.

Happy 7th to dearest Sakura!

Saturday, March 8, 2025

Year Marches On…

I’ve been going on about not visiting a new city on my wedding anniversary since 2023. So the obvious question that arises is what all cities did we visit before then. And the obvious answer is this post. Let’s start!

2013: Goa – It was what is generally called the “Honeymoon” trip. It was described here.

2014: Shri Dungargarh – It was what is generally called the “Paper” Anniversary and we spent it in my hometown. One of Her friends who couldn’t make it to Our wedding, made it to this celebration.

Paper Anniversary Cake

2015: Taipei – It was what is called tired of anniversaries in two years. She came to Taipei from Guangzhou during this time and we spent time exploring the city of Taipei.

2016: Siem Reap – It was the first “international” trip on our anniversary. We enjoyed it a lot as discussed here.

2017: Hualien & Tamsui – It was the time when my postdoc was ending at NTU so we didn’t venture too far from Taipei. The first trip is showcased here and a snippet from the second:

In Tamsui

2018: Kolkata – It was the time when we were expecting Sakura so we just stayed put where we were.

2019: Darjeeling – It was the first trip with Sakura on our anniversary and she definitely enjoyed it with us as seen here.

2020: Bangkok & Krabi – It was the first (and most probably last) international trip with Sakura on our anniversary (just before Covid-19 and associated travel restrictions hit!) and she was joyful on this trip as well.

2021: Kalimpong – It was the one of very few possibilities and we were glad that we took this trip.

2022: Jaipur – It was our first trip as a family in Rajasthan and we covered a lot as discussed here.

2023: Udaipur – It was our second trip as a family in Rajasthan and we covered a lot as discussed here.

So that is all the decade worth of travelling collated in a single blog post. It is also worth re-iterating that just because we stopped travelling at the end of January doesn’t mean we stopped travelling altogether! To make up for that deficit, we have been travelling a month earlier (near the end of December), so for the last two years, I could as well make these entries:

20243: Chennai & Mahabalipuram – It was our first trip as a family in Tamil Nadu and is showcased here.

20254: Madurai & Rameswaram – It was our second trip as a family in Tamil Nadu and She hasn’t made an album for it so nothing to showcase here. It was a nice trip overall, though certain elements could have been avoided in hindsight.

Anyway, I won’t bore you with nothing in particular anymore and leave you with two shers of Dr. Nawaz Deobandi.

दुश्मन हमारी हार पे खुश थे बहुत मियां
लेकिन हमारे दोस्त भी कम खुश नहीं रहे

Dushman hamaari haar pe khush the bahut miyaan
Lekin hamaare dost bhi kam khush nahin rahe

Enemies were overjoyed with my defeat
But my friends' joy was no less sweet!

वो हमेशा यही कहता था की तुम बेहतर हो
मैं समझता हूँ की वो शख्श बहुत बेहतर था

Wo hamesha yahi kahata tha ki tum behtar ho
Main samajhta hun ki wo shakhsh bahut behtar tha

That one always did insist that you are better
I realized that that person was much better!

नवाज़ देवबन्दी (Nawaaz Deobandi)

Where will you travel this year?

Saturday, February 1, 2025

Early Learnings

January in 2025 hasn’t felt like January’s of other years. For once, a month has felt like a year. So, on the 1st of February, I would like to share with you all the lessons I have learnt in the last 31 days.

First lesson:

That gifting books you haven't read yourself can be a risky endeavor. During Christmas last year, I gifted a set of award-winning books to someone. These books were actually on my own wishlist, and I hadn't had the chance to read them before gifting. When the new year began, I finally read them myself and realized that they probably weren't the best fit for the recipient after all. They likely didn't enjoy them as much as I had hoped. This experience taught me a valuable lesson: it's important to only preach what you practice. Sharing personal recommendations or gifts should come from a place of genuine experience and understanding. This way, you can ensure that the recipient will appreciate and enjoy the gift as much as you intended.

Takeaway:

Always make sure you are familiar with the contents of the books you give, so you can genuinely recommend them to others.

Second Lesson:

Not directly urging people to take actions, except in situations involving my children or within my reporting line at work. This lesson hit home when I decided to meet a friend visiting from another city. My enthusiasm inadvertently prompted other friends to travel long distances, all while navigating Bengaluru's famously hectic traffic. It made me aware of how our well-intended actions can create situations where others feel compelled to follow, despite the inconveniences.

Takeaway:

Always be mindful of how your actions and decisions might unintentionally influence others. Reflect on whether you are subtly pressuring people into actions they wouldn't normally take if it weren't for your involvement. By thinking aloud and considering the broader impact, you can foster an environment where everyone feels comfortable making choices without undue pressure.

Third Lesson:

Not to label one person's choices as better or worse than another's. As people grow older, their priorities and preferences naturally evolve. Some may seek out comfort and stability, finding solace in a routine that brings them peace. Others might feel the need to take a break and step back from the pressures of life to rejuvenate and reflect. Meanwhile, there are those who remain driven, motivated to push themselves harder in pursuit of their goals and ambitions. It's crucial to recognize that none of these paths are inherently right or wrong. They are simply the diverse choices people make as they navigate through different stages of their lives. These decisions are influenced by various factors such as personal experiences, aspirations, and changing circumstances.

Takeaway:

The most important takeaway from this realization is that as long as the choices people make bring them happiness and fulfillment, and they don’t cause harm to others, those choices are perfectly valid and acceptable. This understanding fosters a sense of empathy and respect for the individuality of each person's journey. It encourages us to support one another, regardless of the different paths we may choose to follow, and to appreciate the uniqueness of our diverse experiences.

Fourth Lesson:

Humans, in their essence, are inherently flawed, and perfection is an unattainable goal for anyone. While nobody is perfect, there are some people whose beliefs, values, and outlook on life align more closely with our own. These connections resonate deeply with us and foster a sense of camaraderie and mutual understanding. It's perfectly acceptable, and often necessary, to gravitate towards those individuals whose values and beliefs mirror our own. Surrounding ourselves with people who share our core principles can provide a supportive and enriching environment, allowing us to thrive. Conversely, it’s also okay to distance ourselves from those whose values significantly diverge from ours. This isn’t a judgment of their character, but rather an acknowledgment of the importance of aligning ourselves with people who positively contribute to our well-being and personal growth.

Takeaway:

The most significant takeaway from this realization is that our time on this planet is finite and precious. We must choose our companions wisely, investing our limited time and energy in relationships that bring us joy, support, and fulfillment. By selectively nurturing these meaningful connections, we can cultivate a more harmonious and satisfying life, enriching our personal journey and the lives of those around us.

The picture below has nothing to do with the post but reminds me that Sakura-chan has recently made some cacti for me using Lego.

Cacti using Lego